Showing posts with label Grandmother. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grandmother. Show all posts

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Golden Memories -- The Clothesline


[Photo source: Google Internet images]
(20 Sep 2012 – So many golden memories of my maternal grandparents stay with me.  These memories seem just as fresh now in my mind and heart albeit they are from over 50 years ago.  Below are some shared memories of those years.  Moreover, I've also added a poem and rulebook that I found on the Internet about Clotheslines -- that I was delighted with and hope you enjoy!  Submitted by:  Dorothy Hazel Tarr.)

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[Photo source: GOOGLE Internet images "wringer washing machine"]


INTRODUCTION
 
For several years in 1952-1954, I lived with my Maternal Grandparents Laurel Flynn Scott (1896 Oklahoma-1979 Oregon) and "Betty" Mary Elizabeth Bennett Scott (1897 Missouri-1980 Oregon) in Pond Township, California.  The township is located in Central California and is almost just a stop sign where two roads intersect.  My Grandparents were farm managers for several years for two different farms as I recall.  Grandpa grew and harvested cotton, while Gram worked in the house and performed the typical farmer's wife tasks.  Somehow, Gram made everything fun and interesting to me.  Nothing seemed too hard or boring!!!  She had a wonderful way about her!  Grandpa had the same spirit about him, but this is Gram's story.
 
Gram makes home arts fun
 
Gram was a great one for cooking, canning, gardening, sewing, cleaning, washing clothes, ironing, quilting, embroidery -- the list goes on and on.  And, oh my word, could she "kill" a chicken for the dinner table menu -- but that is another story.  This story is about how I learned home arts from Gram.
 
 Washing and Ironing Clothes
 
There was a whole procedure that needed to be followed in order to do the washing and ironing if you did it the way Gram did.
 
(1)  The washing was done on the farmhouse back porch using a "wringer" and "gear shift" washer machine.  The soap had to be measured, the water had to be heated and added with a long hose from the faucet of the porch double sink, then the washer gearshift was started and the soap and water mixed for a few minutes.  The pre-sorted clothes were put into the large tub, the gearshift turned on, and the egg timer set for 15 minutes.  Then the gears were turned off and the water was drained out of the washer tub via a hose into the porch double sink drain.  The clothes washer wringer was unlocked-from-its-stationary-position and you had to swing its "arm" out over the porch double sink.  Then the clothes were removed from the washing machine's tub and "run through the wringer", which squeezed out the water from the clothes via the clothes washer wringer double rollers.  The squeezed out water drained out into the porch double sink via a slanted drain tray.  There was an art to hand feeding the clothes into the wringer rollers!!  The pillowcases must have the closed end go in into the wringer rollers first, so that the water and air are not trapped inside the pillowcase!  If you forgot to do this, the pillowcase could burst and the water could splash all over you!  The same cautionary applied to other items such as shirts, dresses, and socks!  For even if the clothing items did not burst, the clothing could be damaged from the pressure of the escaping air and water.  Then too the clothing could get tangled in the rollers.  When this happened, the rollers had to be halted and opened in order to untangle and release the clothing wrapped around the rollers.  You had to be ever watchful and quick to take corrective action!  (chuckles!)  It was a real art to feed clothing into the wringer rollers—and it made for lots of unexpected doings on washday!  (chuckles!)  Then too, you had to be careful and watch what you were doing, for you could easily get hurt with all those moving parts and procedures.  I recall comedian routines where the comedian would get their tie caught in an old wringer washing machine -- which is very possible if you are careless or unlucky!  Well anyway, then new hot or warm water was added to the washer machine tub.  The squeezed clothes were put back by hand manually into the tub and the gears turned on for 5 minutes--this was the rinse "cycle".  Then the clothes were put through the wringer one last time.  Now, the clothes were washed, wringer squeezed, and ready to be hung on the clothesline outside.  Grandpa would put up the "removable" clothesline so I could use an old rag to wrap around the clothesline wire to clean the wire, for it got very dusty and dirty in between washdays.  Then finally, Gram and I would take a basket of clothes and hang then on the clothesline with clothespins.  The clothespins were in a cute bag that Gram made and that hung on the clothesline and could be pushed along as you hung up clothes.  Gram said the clothes had to be "bone dry" before they could be taken down and brought indoors.  I just loved this whole process.  Even though these days, I use a modern washer and dryer, I think of Gram and Grandpa every time I do my laundry!!!
 
(2)  After the clothes were "bone dry", Gram and I would take down the clothes and take them indoors in large baskets.  Then we would lay each garment on the large dining room table and "sprinkle water" on the clothes using a soda glass bottle with a special sprinkle-top that was put in the opening.  It always seemed funny to me, that the clothes had to be "bone dry" before we wet them!!  However, that's the way Gram did it!  After each item of clothing was sprinkled, it was very important to fold and roll the clothes and put them in a bag for at least an hour.  (It seems like yesterday, that I sprinkled those clothes, the memories are so precious and strong.)  In order to do a proper job of ironing the clothes, the clothes needed to be slightly and evenly damp -- for in that day, the electric irons did not have a steam or spray function.  After some hours, we would set up the ironing board, electric iron, and a rag with a bowl of water nearby.  (The bowl of water and rag were used to dampen the clothes if there were any areas that were still "bone dry".)  Gram would let me iron Grandpa's large handkerchiefs -- this was a real honor for me and Grandpa always said how nice I did them.  In addition, I ironed embroidered pillowcases, embroidered kitchen linen, Gram's large farmer wife apron pennies, and anything else that was mostly flat.  I would take an apron, handkerchief, or pillowcase out of the "sprinkle clothes bag" and proceed to do a masterful job of ironing the item to lots of praise from Gram.  (Even though I use an electric steam iron with a sprayer built in now, I still think of my Gram and Grandpa while I do this household task.)
 
How to embroider
 
Gram taught me how to embroider household items such as aprons, doilies, handkerchiefs, pillowcases, kitchen linen, clothing, and whatever.  She kept a whole range of colors of embroidery thread in an embroidery thread keeper that she made herself.  It was just magic the way she kept everything so neat and organized.  She showed me how to iron an embroidery pattern on a kitchen towel and then to select colors for the embroidery design.  She showed me several techniques for embroidery knots, stitchery, and overlays.  My attempts were always given lots of praise.  I was so proud to sit with her while she did her own embroidery and I had my own to do too!!!  Grandpa always seemed to come by and give Gram and me lots of praise.
 
Making clothes
 
Gram made all her own clothes.  She would purchase the fabric at JC Pennys or Woolworths.  Clothes patterns were purchased along with thread, pins, needles, and other items.  She would lay the fabric out on the large dining room table and pin the clothing pattern to the fabric.  Then Gram would let me help cut out the easier pieces (those with straight lines) with scissors.  Then she would show me how to "thread" her old peddle (non-electric) SINGER sewing machine.  I just loved the rhythm of my feet on the peddle and the noise "quickity clickity click".  I made lots of pillowcases, kitchen linens, and handkerchiefs (straight lines again).  Gram always "tailored" things to my level of experience so I never felt overwhelmed, inadequate, or incompetent ever!  On the contrary, I felt very proud of my efforts while I was doing the same things Gram did (even though they were smaller in scale or simpler in complexity.)
 
Cleaning house
 
Gram also taught me how to do a "proper" job of "dry dusting" the linoleum floors (no carpeting in the farmhouse).  We used a special "dry dust mop" that had a long pole with a bunch of "old rags" that Gram attached to the bottom.  With this magical  tool, I would go around the floor of the farmhouse each morning after breakfast was done.  When the dry mop got too dirty, Gram and I would replace the dry dust mop rags with "clean rags".  Gram would wash the dirty rags so they could be used again.  We did not iron these rags.
 
Other arts of keeping a home
 
There was so much to learn –
 
How to make the greatest pan drippings gravy,
How to cook an egg for Grandpa that was just the way he liked them,
How to dry the dishes just right and put them away,
How to make a bed with clean linen, smooth, "fluffed" pillows, and straightened bedspread,
How to crochet doilies, pillow sheet edges, and linen edges,
How to "kill", dress, and cook a chicken,
How to plant, harvest, and 'put-up" or can bounty from a garden full of vegetables and melons,
How to shop at JC Pennys, Woolworths, and the post office,
How to go to the Church of Christ that Grandpa and another relative started in Delano, California, and
How to LOVE and be LOVED by Gram and Grandpa!!!!!
 
 
CLOSING THOUGHTS
 
Although the clothesline is empty now and the clothespins are weathered, my memories remain young and fresh of those few golden years with my Grandpa and Gram.  I LOVE you with all my Heart and MISS you both every day!!


 
 
 
 
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The Clothesline


A clothesline was a news forecast
To neighbors passing by.
There were no secrets you could keep
When clothes were hung to dry.

It also was a friendly link
For neighbors always knew
If company had stopped on by
To spend a night or two.

For then you'd see the fancy sheets
and towels on the line;
You'd see the company table clothes
With intricate design.

The line announced a baby's birth
To folks who lived inside
As brand new infant clothes were hung
So carefully with pride.

The ages of the children could
So readily be known
By watching how the sizes changed
You'd know how much they'd grown.

It also told when illness struck,
As extra sheets were hung;
Then nightclothes, and a bathrobe, too,
Haphazardly were strung.

It said, "Gone on vacation now"
When lines hung limp and bare.
It told, "We're back!" when full lines sagged
With not an inch to spare.

New folks in town were scorned upon
If wash was dingy gray,
As neighbors raised their brows, and looked
Disgustedly away.

But clotheslines now are of the past
For dryers make work less.
Now what goes on inside a home
Is anybody's guess

I really miss that way of life.
It was a friendly sign
When neighbors knew each other best
By what hung on the line!

[~Author unknown]

 
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12 GUIDE RULES for CLOTHESLINES

(If you don’t even know what clotheslines are, better skip this).

1. You had to hang the socks by the toes…..NOT the top.

2. You hung pants by the bottom/cuffs….NOT the waistbands.

3. You had to wash the clothesline before hanging any clothes – walk the entire length of each line with a damp cloth around the line.

4. You had to hang the clothes in a certain order, and always have “whites” with “whites” and hang them first.

5. You never hung a shirt by the shoulders – always by the tail!  What would the neighbors think?

6. Wash day on a Monday!  NEVER hang clothes on the weekend, or on Sunday, for Heaven’s Sake!

7. Hang the sheets and towels on the OUTSIDE lines so you could hide your “unmentionables” in the middle (perverts and busy bodies y’know!)

8. It didn’t matter if it was sub-zero weather….clothes would “freeze-dry”.

9. Always gather the clothespins when taking down dry clothes!  Pins left on the lines were “tacky”.

10. If you were efficient, you would line the clothes up so that each item did not need two clothespins, but shared one of the clothespins with the next washed item.

11. Clothes off of the line before dinnertime, neatly folded in the clothesbasket, and ready to be ironed.

12. IRONED???!!!, WELL, THAT”S A WHOLE OTHER STORY!

[~Author unknown]

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[Photo source: GOOGLE Internet image "clothesline"]
 


Monday, February 6, 2012

(002) AFTER THE BRANCH – Comes the Leaves

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My Paternal Family History


(6 Feb 2012 – My Family Tree has many branches and many leaves. Below is a brief history of my paternal grandparents. 

LOVE MY FAMILY!  Dorothy Hazel Tarr)



My paternal third Great Grandparents--

In 1850 my paternal third Great Grandfather Jesse Rueben Cotton (1785 Harrison County, Kentucky – 1862 Clay County, Kentucky) was a farmer and head of a large household with his wife Jane Griffin Cotton (1792 Virginia, which was later renamed Kentucky – 1873 Clay County, Kentucky).  On the 1850 US Federal Census, the Family's Ethnicity was recorded as:  Mulatto (freed slave).

In 1850, Jesse owned his own land and farm in Clay County, Kentucky, which was valued then at $400.  Jesse could both read and write, but Jane could not.  Jesse and Jane married about 1810 in Manchester, Clay County, Kentucky and had 15 children.  Jesse was seven years older than his wife Jane, and died eleven years before her death.

The Jesse Rueben Cotton extended Family lived in the same place in Clay County, Kentucky, from about 1830 – 1880s.  The extended family grew and prospered, and in 1860, owned combined land valued then at over $2,000 with combined personal property valued then at over $500.  The Cotton Family stayed with the land and their sons and daughters lived together in the same residence or next door to each other from about 1830s to about 1880s. (Just a historical note:  The American Civil War occurred 1861-1865.  And, The Jesse Reuben Cotton family were listed as freed slaves in the 1850 Census – before the War.)

Many of the neighboring farms and residents were also freed slaves and faced challenges only we know today by reading about them in Library Archives or Family Diaries.  Through the years, the family married interracially blending in Native American and other ethnicity and cultures.

My paternal second Great Grandparents--

I am a direct descendant of Jesse and Jane's sixth child, Martha Ann Cotton Collins (my paternal Second Great Grandmother).  On 24 Jul 839, Martha Ann (1817 Clay County, KY – 1898 Clay County, KY) married James Collins (1814 Tennessee – 1885 Clay County, KY).  Martha and James had 15 children, and their tenth child was Morgan Daniel Collins (1854 KY – 1934 OK). 


My paternal first Great Grandparents--

On 19 May 1880, Morgan Daniel Collins (my paternal first Great Grandfather) married Sarah Jane Day Collins (1866 KY – 1947 OK) and they had nine children.  My BELOVED paternal grandmother Emma Sarah Collins Eslick Tarr Radar (1898-1980) was their seventh child.  Emma Sarah is my father's mother; my father James Thomas Tarr is still living (as of today) at age 92 in Fresno, Calfiornia.  Love you Gram Emma and miss you every day!.



Below are some of THE COLLINS FAMILY beloved and favorite photos.

Here are some of the things you may learn from the narrative, photos, and captions:
- the Family groups were large,
- they were farmers,
- they were musically inclined,
- they were connected to law enforcement,
- they were in Oklahoma when it was known as Indian Territory,
- they lived in Virginia, Kentucky, Tennessee, and Oklahoma,
- they were owners and managers of a Mercantile, Grocery, Cafe,
- they were married to their spouses until their deaths,
- they survived the US American Civil War, WW I, and WW II,
- they survived the cultural differences and challenges of interracially blended groups,
- and, they thrived and left a rich legacy and family history for future generations.

LOVE MY FAMILY! [dht]


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[Family Photo:  The Morgan Daniel Collins Family. Photo taken about 1908 Indian Territory (later called Oklahoma).]

 (This photo version is without James Elbert Collins' wife Della standing next to him;  Della Faye Carter Collins (1890-1974) was a favorite in the Family for her GREAT PIES!).   This photo was taken on the SAME day as THE COLLINS FAMILY BAND photo below, as you may notice the family members are still in the same clothes and with same hairstyles as that photo!]

R-to-L in photo are:
Morgan Daniel Collins   (1854-1934) {my BELOVED paternal First Great Grandfather},
Sarah Jane Day Collins (1866-1947) {my BELOVED paternal First Great Grandmother},
James Elbert Collins       (1884-1940),
Morgan Glover Collins  (1886-1895 {deceased and NOT in photo}),
William Silas "Willy" Collins (1888-1965),
Nan Anna Belle Collins Rutherford (1890-1969),
Robert Gaither Collins   (1892-1936),
John Daniel Collins       (1896-1947),
Emma Sarah Collins Eslick Tarr Radar (1898-1980) {my BELOVED paternal Gram},
Georgia Ann Collins Bruce (1901-1979 holding her dolly in her right hand,
Budley Lee Collins             (1903-1972).



[In photo:  This is my Paternal First Great Grandfather MORGAN DANIEL COLLINS, about 1874 in Fort Smith, Arkansas (called Indian Territory then).]

This is a hand drawn portrait by some unknown artist or family member.  He is about age 20 in this vintage portrait and holding a SIX GUN in his right hand.  It is said within the family that he was a US MARSHALL in Fort Smith, Arkansas.






[In photo:  This vintage photo is referred to within the family as THE COLLINS FAMILY BAND photo and was taken about 1908 Indian Territory (later called Sapulpa, Oklahoma).]  

R-to-L in photo are 
On banjo JOHN DANIEL, on violin WILLY SILAS, on clarinet JAMES ELBERT, on organ ANNA BELLE, on guitar ROBERT GAITHER, standing are GEORGIA ANN, EMMA SARAH (the taller female child), then BUDLEY LEE.

DID you notice the hairstyles of the guys (chuckles)!  Their hair is parted in the middle and combed to each side! LUV you guys! Wish I could have heard you play that day! 

LOOK CLOSELY in the enlarged and cropped version of the BAND group photo FOR A SURPRISE FACE -- My Great Gram's face (Sarah Jane Day Collins) is in the mirror reflection near the top right side of the organ.  I found her when I enlarged this photo, and was so excited!  So, I enlarged it so she could be seen more clearly; so look closely for her sweet face over the right shoulder of James Elbert who is on the clarinet.
 
Hi there, GREAT GRAM SARAH JANE!!!!   
LOVE YOU,  GREAT GRAM!!




[In photo:  This vintage photo is referred to within the family as THE COLLINS FAMILY STORE photo, and was taken about 1914 in Sapulpa, Oklahoma.]

R-to-L in photo are:
Morgan Daniel Collins   (1854-1934) {my BELOVED paternal First Great Grandfather},
Sarah Jane Day Collins (1866-1947) {my BELOVED paternal First Great Grandmother},
On the left side of the photo and behind the counter standing is my Paternal Gram EMMA SARAH (age about 16).  The male customer sitting at the counter is unknown; also unknown is the small male child next to Gram Emma Sarah. 

NOTICE the potbellied stove in the middle of the photo and all the sundry goods hanging on the walls and from ceiling.  When I enlarged this photo, I discovered some VERY interesting items for sale. ENJOY this Family photo that is almost 100 YEARS OLD !!!



[In Photo:   Grave Site Marker for Sarah Jane Day Collins and Morgan Daniel Collins, in Collins Family Plot in Seminole, Oklahoma.]

Donald Morgan Tarr (my father's younger brother) is shown in this photo and his wife Lena Fay Tarr took this photo about 1986.  Uncle Donald and Aunt Fay traveled around the many areas where the Family lived, and took lots of photos and even visited some living descendants.  Uncle Donald shares my interest in our Family History and Stories and has written many poems highlighting our Family Doings.


[In Photo:  Cover page of Morgan Daniel Collins Family Bible.]

 In 1912, this Christian Bible was given to Sarah Jane Day Collins by her daughter Emma Sarah Collins (my Paternal Grandmother).  However, the Bible was destroyed in a rainstorm in 1947 in Seminole, Oklahoma, and only this cover page and a few other pages remain.


I HOPE you enjoyed visiting our Family! 

LOVE MY FAMILY! [dht]
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Friday, September 23, 2011

GRAM'S LARGE APRON PENNY


[PHOTO: Mary Elizabeth "Betty" Bennett Scott (born 1897 Missouri - died 1980 Oregon) holding my daughter Rebecca (born 1964) on the Higinbotham Farm in Central Point, Oregon, in August 1966.]

Submitted by: Dorothy Hazel Tarr. 

(I found this wonderful tribute on the Internet and it touched my Heart where memories of my BELOVED Maternal Gram live with her LOVING and gentle ways.  The picture of Gram that I carry in my Heart is one with her in her large apron penny that she always wore over her day dress.  When I 'helped' Gram, she would put one of her very large apron pennies on me, and roll up the waist to shorten it to fit me and use safety pins to hold it on my shoulders.  It was a REAL HONOR to wear one of her aprons!  When we wore those apron pennies, the world was a magical place!  In our apron pennies, we challenged yard chickens for their eggs, battled weeds when gardening, tussled with the dust mop when doing morning chores, dodged thorns when collecting fresh flowers for the farmhouse, and avoided spills-n-stains while doing kitchen duty.)


Grandma's Apron


When I used to visit Grandma.
I was very much impressed,
by her all-purpose apron,
and the power it possessed.
For Grandma, it was everyday
to choose one when she dressed.
The strings were tied and freshly washed,
and maybe even pressed.
The simple apron that it was,
you would never think about;
the things she used it for,
that made it look worn out.


She used it for a basket,
when she gathered up the eggs,
and flapped it as a weapon,
when hens pecked her feet and legs.
She used it to carry kindling
when she stoked the kitchen fire.
And to hold a load of laundry,
or to wipe the clothesline wire.
She used it for a hot pad,
to remove a steaming pan,
and when her brow was heated,
she used it for a fan.

It dried our childish tears,
when we'd scrape a knee and cry,
and made a hiding place
when the little ones were shy.
Farm produce took in season,
in the summer, spring and fall,
found its way into the kitchen
from Grandma's carry all.
When Grandma went to heaven,
God said she now could rest.
I'm sure the apron she chose that day,
was her Sunday best.

[~Author unknown]


Thursday, September 1, 2011

SCOTT Family Heritage -- Lineage




[Submitted by:   Dorothy Hazel Tarr.   My Heart is a Canvas painted with the remembrances of Family members  whose Passage through Time as mortals, paved my way and now rest as Angels to guide my way.]

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Introduction

Our family heritage is deeply bedded in the soil of Scotland, Canada, and the USA.  I have researched our Family's Scottish lineage and heritage a bit using the Internet, and have posted it here as a Family Short Story.  [Heritage photos will be posted here of the Family, treasured mementos, locations, and such; so look for a photo album page for the Head of Households. AND, if you have any photos of the Family to share, send a copy to me with a caption for the photos to my email.]

There are three kinds of family, those you are born to, those that are born to you, and those you let into your heart.

As I learn more about our Family, I will update this Story from time-to-time.  If you have any comments or thoughts to share, they will be welcomed in the spirit that they are offered.  You can email me at FamilyAlbum2010.Dorothy.Tarr@gmail.com.

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Family Short Story

Some of OUR FAMILY members may be gone, but their memory and story of their passage survives in our hearts, minds, spirit, and body.

From beginning to the present, our FAMILY has taken the best and worst that NATURE and circumstance had to 'dish out', and managed not only to survive, but also to grow and prosper.  They borrowed ideas, tools, and techniques of some of their neighbors and in turn lent them to others.  They learned the ways of a new land and then embellished on those with their own unique and new ways themselves.  Theirs is a FAMILY STORY of success and of failure, of challenge, ingenuity, accomplishment, and even MYSTERY and contradiction.  It is, then, our FAMILY STORY – of a people who left their footprints for us to follow.

As I write this, I think of all those WOMEN in our FAMILY, that LOVED, nurtured, and tended OUR FAMILY.  Their STRENGTH is such that our FAMILY has thrived even against the MOST challenging events and times.

ONE HEROIC woman (and there are MANY MORE) in our FAMILY, exemplifies that 'grain' of strength and faith that spans the decades and centuries – ELIZABETH BOWMAN (born 1739 Herkimer, New York – died 28 Jan 1800 Stamford, Lincoln, Ontario, Canada).  In 1764 in Welland, Ontario, Canada, Elizabeth Bowman, age 25, was married to JACOB BAUMAN BOWMAN JUNIOR, age 26, (born 1 Jan 1738 Albany, New York – died 10 Oct 1815 Stamford Township, Lincoln, Ontario, Canada).  [These are my Maternal Fourth Great Grandparents.]  There were THIRTEEN CHILDREN from this union.

The THIRTEEN CHILDREN of JACOB BAUMAN BOWMAN JUNIOR and Elizabeth Bowman were in birth order:

George Adam Bowman (male, 1758-1842);
Mary Bowman (female, 1760-unknown);
Henry B Bowman (male, 1761-1818);
Jacob Bowman (male, 1761-1762);
Peter Bowman (male, 1762-1849);
Margaret Bowman Secord (female, 1764-1851);
Hannah Ann Bowman (female, 1765-unknown);
Abraham Bowman (male, 1768-1860);
Elizabeth Bowman (female, 1768-1849);
Sarah Bowman (female, 1772-1820);
Christine Bowman Scott (female, 1775-1848);
John Bowman (male, 1776-1777);
Eve Bowman (female, 1777-unknown).






In the WINTER of November 1775 under EXTREMELY stressful and dangerous conditions, Elizabeth Bowman went through childbirth, delivering [my Maternal Third Great Grandmother] Christine Bowman Scott (1775-1848), the BABY in this FAMILY STORY below.

During this period, Jacob Bauman Bowman Junior and the first of their 13 children, George Adam Bauman Bowman (1758-1842),  were English Loyalists and were captured and imprisoned by American Patriots during the Revolutionary War period about 20 Dec 1777.  And, several members of this Family unit died in 1777 – 1800.

WHY have I specified the names of the FAMILY members in this FAMILY STORY?  So you will be able to follow the lineage through the generations and relate the names and places to events in History.

Moreover, because without the STRENGTH of heart, mind, spirit, and body of Elizabeth Bowman and other members of our SCOTT FAMILY, there would NOT be a lineage, a FAMILY STORY, and I would NOT be alive to be writing this, and YOU would NOT be alive to read this!  SOMETHING to THINK about; AND, really illustrates and underlines the importance of our FAMILY and ALL the connections and FAMILY STORYS in our FAMILY TREES and BRANCHES.

SOURCE of Family Story below--
WHAT follows BELOW is an extract originally submitted by Ancestry User "monabeez" to their Ancestry Tree "Dayton-Cuthbert Family Tree" on 9 Jun 2007 titled "Elizabeth Bowman's Amazing Story".

 [The Family Members in this Story are: 
The pregnant female (my Fourth Great Grandmother) is Elizabeth Bowman (1739-1800); and
her spouse Jacob Bauman Bowman Junior (1738-1815); and
their eldest son and first child of 13 children, George Adam Bowman (1758-1842), age 16 in this story; and
Peter Bowman (1762-1849) age 11 in this story and fifth of 13 children.]  

I include the Family Story below without any changes.
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Elizabeth was married to a Loyalist (Jacob) in New York, just as the American Revolution began.  The American Patriots wanted the Loyalists out or dead.  One night as Elizabeth lay on her bed very pregnant and probably feeling the early stages of childbirth, the door burst open and in came many men who meant to do them harm.  Some of these people she probably recognized as neighbors and maybe even some as friends but at this time, everything was different.  These men quickly subdued her husband and oldest son then took everything in their home.  They took dishes, clothing, blankets (except one) and all their food.  Finally, they took her husband and her son prisoner and left her on the bed with her other children gathered around and then the baby came 1/2 hour after the men left.

From the Letter by Elizabeth Spohn dated 1861;
"He was surprised at night, while his wife was sick, by a party of rebels, and with his eldest son, a lad sixteen years of age, was taken prisoner; his house was pillaged of every article, except the bed on which his sick wife lay, and that they stripped of all but one blanket.  Half an hour after my grandfather was marched off, his youngest child was born.  This was in November.  There my grandmother was, with an infant babe and six children, at the commencement of winter, without any provisions, and only one blanket in the house.  Their cattle and grain were all taken away."
"The wives and children of several imprisoned men were being threatened and very poorly treated.  Deciding they could no longer take the chance of staying in their homes in the area of Forty Fort in the Wyoming Valley, the five women took the chance that walking to Fort Niagara, Ontario would be safer than staying were they were.  In the fall, the 5 women and 32 children (Source: from Halton Region Museum in the “Buck papers”.) walked to Fort Niagara in the cold October and arriving at Fort Niagara on the 3rd of Nov. (Mrs. Elizabeth Spohn’s letter) No timeline has been offered to the length, but the tired, hunger, and scared party of women and children did make their Trek.  If Benjamin Harvey, took over 5 weeks, I would assume the children would have took at least as long."  Don't know this source, will try to find it.  By todays roads it would have been 441km and 274 miles.

"Somewhere along the trip the Commander of the British forces in Niagara heard of the plight that these women and children were in while walking to Canada.  Nothing has been recorded, that I can find, that will tell us just where the Scouts and Indians meet up with them on the trail.  The Commander had given orders to “bring them in,” and that is just what they did.  It may have been Nov. 3rd and more likely in 1778".  Not sure of the source for this paragraph, will try to find it.

From the Letter by Elizabeth Spohn dated 1861;
"My father, Peter Bowman, the eldest son at home, was only eleven years old.  As the pillage was at night, he had neither coat nor shoes; he had to cut and draw his firewood half a mile on a hand-sleigh to keep his sick mother from freezing; this he did barefooted.  The whole family would have perished had it not been for some friendly Indians that brought them provisions.  One gave my father a blanket, coat and a pair of mocassins.  A kind Squaw doctored my grandmother, but she suffered so much through want and anxiety that it was not until spring that she was able to do anything.  She then took her children and went to the Mohawk River, where they planted corn and potatoes; and in the fall the commander of the British forces at Niagara, hearing of their destitute situation, sent a party with some Indians to bring them in.  They brought in five families: the Nellises, Secords, Youngs, Bucks, and our own family (Bowman), five women and thirty-one children, and only one pair of shoes among them all.  They arrived at Fort George on the 3rd of November, 1776; (year in question bh) from there they were sent first to Montreal, and then to Quebec, where the Government took care of them-that is, gave them something to eat, and barracks to sleep in.  My grandmother was exposed to cold and damp so much that she took the rheumatism and never recovered."

She did not see her husband for 4 years after he was taken.

Note from Mona; At one point I was trying to figure out if Jacob's wife Ann was actually the women to do the trek instead of Elizabeth.  I was speculating on dates and number of children for the trek and somehow it is possible that Ann could have been the Mrs. Bowman on the trek.  Christina, Eve, and Sarah may have been Ann's children.  Sarah would have been on the trek too but she is never mentioned.  Dates may indicate that Christine or Christina was the baby born when the rebels came to their home and took everything.

A saddle used by Mrs. Philip Buck (one of the other women) who was probably pregnant on the trip is in the Halton Museum Ontario.

Elizabeth Bowman's ordeal lasted 5-6 years
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Some of our SCOTT FAMILY members of direct lineage
 
In this Family Short Story below, I am NOT the author but rather only the transcriber of events and stories garnered from others and History.  We begin with my Maternal Great Grandparents.

Third Great Grandparents--
     Samuel Enos Scott and Christine Bowman/Baumann Scott
Second Great Grandparents --
     Jobe W Scott and Rebecca Scott
First Great Grandparents--
     James Alfred Scott and Mary Grace Jennings Scott

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Third Great Grandparents--
     Samuel Enos Scott and Christine Bowman/Baumann Scott

Samuel Enos Scott (born 1774 Pennsylvania Colony, America – died after 1861 Delaware, Middlesex, Ontario, Canada).  [NOTE:  I have NOT been able to follow his forbearer's lineage or parentage—need help here.]

On  3 Jun 1794, in Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada, Samuel Enos Scott married Christine Bowman/Baumann Scott (born 1775 Pennsylvania Colony, America – died 9 Sep 1848 Ontario, Canada).

Christine is a descendant of the Bowman Baumann Family and the eleventh of 13 children of her parents Elizabeth Bowman and Jacob Bauman Bowman.  The Bowman Family (which is well documented in books and on Internet) were English Loyalists and Quakers and had fled the Tunkhannock, Pennsylvania Colony area in the Winter of 1777/78 and found refuge in Niagara, Canada.  However, Samuel Enos and his fourth child Adam Bowman Scott (b 1812) who were Quaker and British Loyalists, were captured by American Patriots and imprisoned.  More on this can be found on the Internet and in books about the American Revolutionary War and the "Butler's Rangers", who were British Loyalists.  [SPECIAL NOTE:  These are my Maternal Third Great Grandparents.]

There were SIX CHILDREN from the union of Samuel Enos Scott and Christine Bowman/Baumann Scott, with Jobe W Scott being the fifth child.

The SIX CHILDREN of Samuel Enos Scott and Christine Bowman/Baumann Scott were in birth order:

John Scott (male, 1795-1897);
Jacob Scott (male, 1797- unknown);
Charles Scott (make, 1804-unknown);
Adam Bowman Scott (male, 1812-unknown);
Jobe W Scott (male, 1817-1893);
Enos Scott (male, 1824-1908).

The 1861 Census Records for Delaware, Middlesex, Ontario, Canada, show Jobe's father (Samuel Enos Scott, age 87) lived with his son Jobe at the time of the census.  Samuel Enos Scott died later that same year; and his wife Christine Bowman Scott pre-deceased Samuel Enos Scott in 1848 at age 73 in Ontario, Canada.



Second Great Grandparents --
     Jobe W Scott and Rebecca Scott

Jobe W Scott (born 22 Sep 1817 Ontario, Canada – 8 Dec 1893 Kansas) and Rebecca Scott (born 5 Feb 1820 Ontario, Canada – died 1889 Superior, McPherson, Kansas).  Jobe W Scott and his wife Rebecca Scott (Rebecca's maiden name was also SCOTT) were both born in Ontario, Canada.  [NOTE:  I have NOT been able to follow Rebecca Scott's forbearer  lineage or parentage—need help here.]

They were married on 11 Nov 1840 in  St Thomas Church, St Thomas Township, Elgin, Ontario, Canada, by Reverend M. Burnham, and witnessed by Jobe's brothers [younger Enos Scott (1824-1908) and older brother Jacob Scott (b 1797-?)].  There were ELEVEN CHILDREN from the union of Jobe W Scott and Rebecca Scott.






The ELEVEN CHILDREN of Jobe W Scott and Rebecca Scott were in birth order:

Sarah Jane Scott Dark (female, 1843-1910);
Hyram / Hiram William Scott (male, 1845-1910);
Elvina Scott Stansel (female, 1847-1942);
John Henry Scott (male, 1850-1945);
Charles Edward Scott (male, 1853-1932);
Zenas George Scott (male, 18567-1935);
Samuel Enos Scott (male, 1858-1951);
Hannah Ann Scott Smith (male, 1860-1930);
Rachael / Rachel Scott (female, 1863-1916);
Helen R "Ella" Scott Ebenback (female, 1863-1916);
James Alfred Scott (male, 1864-1935).

A photo of some of these children as adults is posted here.

The Census Records are interesting to review and show  JOBE W SCOTT and REBECCA SCOTT and their forebears settled in CANADA  (in the St Thomas, Elgin, Ontario, Canada, area and in the Delaware, Middlesex, Canada West (Ontario) area.  JOBE W SCOTT's name appears in the CANADA CENSUS for 1851, 1861, 1871. 
(SPECIAL NOTE:   The JOBE W SCOTT Family Bible was purchased in September 1851 in Ontario, Canada, and is over 160 years old; it is currently in the possession and care of my Mom's [Dorothy Helen Scott (Tarr)] youngest sister--- Jeannette Scott (Alvarez).  I have posted photos of the SCOTT FAMILY BIBLE here—it is VERY fragile.)

The Provinces of Egin and Middlesex in Ontario, Canada, were home to many of our SCOTT Family forbearers.  An entire township, which is still on modern maps as Scottsville, Ontario, Canada, was named for our Family.  Today, when looking at the residents and landowners of the Ontario area in LAND RECORDS and PHONE RECORDS, there are a LOT of SCOTTs.  [I have posted a copy of a old LAND MAP of here of Scottsville, Ontario, Canada, that Aunt Nette gave me, which shows the tracts of LAND with the surname SCOTT on so many of the map's area.]  The SCOTT CLAN 'filled the map' and the area with their presence and enterprise.

About 1879, JOBE W SCOTT and many of his children and their families sold their land and property in Canada, and relocated and resettled in the Superior, McPherson, Kansas, USA, area and purchased land.  [Aunt Nette gave me copies of some of the LAND DEEDS (which I posted here) which shows SCOTT LAND in CANADA being sold.]



First Great Grandparents--
     James Alfred Scott and Mary Grace Jennings Scott

James Alfred Scott was born on 4 Dec 1864 in Ontario, Canada, and was Jobe W Scott and Rebecca Scott's eleventh child of their 11 children.  James Alfred lived with his parents in the Delaware, Middlesex, Ontario, Canada, and area until about 1880.  He was a schoolteacher and farmer by occupation.
Per the 1880 US Census, Jobe W Scott and his family (including James Alfred Scott) moved to settle in Superior, McPherson, Kansas, USA.
James Alfred Scott became a schoolmaster and taught school in McPherson County, Kansas.  While there, he met Mary Grace Jennings (born 13 Jun 1872 in Dallas Center, Dallas County, Iowa, USA, who was also a schoolteacher.
On 13 May 1891 in McPherson County, Kansas, USA, James Alfred Scott (age 26) joined in marriage with Mary Grace Jennings Scott (age 18).  The wedding ceremony was performed by Reverend Clark in McPherson County, Kansas, USA.  James Alfred Scott was protestant and a member of the Church of Christ in Rosedale, Oklahoma.  (James Alfred was a member of the Church of Christ in Delano, California, in later years after moving his family to California.  The Church of Christ in Delano was founded by his sons Laurel Flynn Scott and Raymond Cyril Scott.)
A Wedding Portrait photo is posted here, and in it, Mary Grace looks so young and lovely in her beautiful wedding dress, and James Alfred looks so dapper.  Their son Laurel Flynn Scott, my maternal grandfather and my mother's father, looks so much like his father James Alfred Scott in this photo and in other photos; the resemblance is remarkable!

Mary Grace Jennings Scott's parents were Nathan Brownfield Jennings (born 17 Mar 1845 Masontown, Fayette, Pennsylvania – died 3 Mar 1932 Canton, Kansas) and Elizabeth Jane Findley Jennings (born 11 Apr 1847 Armstrong County, Pennsylvania – died 17 Aug 1932 Wauhee, Dallas, Iowa).  Mary Grace was the first child of the six children of her parents.

The SIX CHILDREN from the marriage of James Alfred Scott and Mary Grace Jennings Scott were in birth order:  
Gladys Iona Scott Dunlap (1892-1968);
Raymond Cyril Scott (1894-1961);
Laurel Flynn Scott (1896-1979), [Aunt Nette's father and my Maternal Grandfather];
Clarence Jennings Scott (1900-1943);
Zara Harold Scott (1904-1956); and
Mary Rebecca Elizabeth Scott Webster (1908-1989).

Sometime between 1891 and 1894, James Alfred Scott and his wife Mary Grace Jennings Scott owned and managed some type of store McPherson County, Kansas.  About 1893, when the Cherokee Strip (in Indian Territory Oklahoma) opened up for new settlers, James Alfred Scott had a man "run and stake out" a parcel of land for him during the Oklahoma Land Run.  The parcel of land he obtained from the Oklahoma Land Run was located in Stella (Range 9), Woods County, Oklahoma Territory.  Now James Alfred Scott was a landowner, and his plan as a new landowner was to begin farming his land.  Therefore, he sold the store in Kansas and left Kansas with his young family; he was about age 30.

By 1894, he, Mary Grace, and their young daughter Gladys Iona Scott Dunlap (1892-1968) had moved from McPherson County, Kansas, to Manchester County, Oklahoma, and were settled on their new farm.  James Alfred became a landowner and farmer and Mary Grace became a farmer's wife and kept house and family.  On 14 Jan 1894, Mary Grace gave birth to their second child Raymond Cyril Scott in Manchester County, Oklahoma.  While living and working on their farm, their family continued to grow with the addition of three more children: Laurel Flynn Scott (1896), Clarence Jennings Scott (1900), and Zara Harold Scott (1904).

During 1904 and 1905, James Alfred Scott served as the Rosedale School Officer Treasurer.  The Rosedale School was located in the small town of Rosedale, Manchester, Oklahoma.  (If you use GOOGLE to search on Rosedale, Oklahoma, you can see some info on it and use GOOGLE maps to look at the surrounding area.)  Their children went to school there, as did the children of their neighbors from the other farms within a 5-mile radius or so.  Many of the children of Rosedale School met their future spouses there.  James Alfred and Mary Grace's third child Laurel Flynn Scott went to this school (as did his future spouse and my Maternal Gram Mary Elizabeth "Betty" Bennett Scott) until 1908.

[A photo of the Rosedale School graduation program 1904-1905 that belonged to Gladys Iona Scott Dunlap (daughter of James Alfred Scott and Mary Grace, my BELOVED Grand Aunt, and Jeannette's Aunt) is posted here.  It lists the names of the children at the school and James Alfred Scott as the School Treasurer.  Also listed is James Jones Bennett (the father of Mary Elizabeth "Betty" Bennett Scott, my Maternal Great Grandfather, and Aunt Jeannette's Maternal Grandfather) as Director of Rosedale School.  My Grand Aunt Gladys was going to throw this wonderful memento away, and I convinced her to give it to me as a "keep sake".  It is one of my MOST TREASURED mementoes.]

Then on 12 Mar 1908, at age 36, Mary Grace passed away from hemorrhaging and complications after the birth of her sixth child.  Aunt Jeannette adds the following, "My Dad said he had to quit school in the 8th grade (age 12) to stay home and take care of his new baby sister (Mary Rebecca Elizabeth Scott Webster), because his Mom had died."

On 30 Dec 1908, James Alfred Scott married Mary Alice Dunlap Scott (born Jul 1897 Parson, Adams, Illinois – died 6 Dec 1957 in California) of the Parson, Adams, Illinois, USA, DUNLAPS.  James Alfred and Mary Alice had one child James William Dunlap Scott (born 19 Nov 1909 Oklahoma – died 6 Apr 1979 Delano, Kern, California), and he was given Mary Alice's maiden name for his middle name.  He was called "Dunlap" by family and friends, and went by the name of J.W. Dunlap Scott.  A Family Portrait photo of this new family is posted here.

Mary Alice's parents were James Lee Dunlap Senior (born Oct 1854 Illinois - died 17 Jun 1924 Payson, Adams, Illinois) and Alice Jane Crewdson Dunlap (born Jul 1865 Illinois - died after 1930 Illinois).

James Alfred Scott's brothers were encouraging him to move out to California claiming that the weather was better and the living better.  His older brothers, probably Zenas George Scott (1856-1935 Arizona), and Samuel Enos Scott (188-1951 California) all went to California at various times between 1910 to 1950.  After 2 or 3 years, some of his older brothers (you recall that James Alfred was the youngest of all the children) moved back to Oklahoma for a time.

Sometime between 1917 and 1920, James Alfred Scott sold his farm and moved his family to California.  All of James Alfred Scott's children settled in California where they lived, married, raised families, and passed away.  However, one of James Alfred Scott's sons, Laurel Flynn Scott his wife Mary Elizabeth "Betty" Bennett Scott, left California in the 1950s and settled in the Central Point, Oregon.  Laurel Flynn Scott and Mary Elizabeth "Betty" Bennett Scott lived and worked on the Higinbotham Family Farm in Central Point, Oregon, for many years.  Their eldest daughter, Margaret Lucille Scott Higinbotham, was married to Glenn Ivan Higinbotham.

Per the 1930 US Census, James Alfred Scott, his wife Mary Alice, and their son still living at home (James William Dunlap Scott, age 21) resided in Earlimart, Alila, Tulare, California.

James Alfred Scott passed away at age 70, on 29 Jul 1935 in Delano, Kern, California, resulting from complications after a long illness.  He is buried in Delano, Kern, California.  Aunt Nette (Jeannette Scott Alvarez) writes in her notes to me that, he passed away after being ill for a long time.  Aunt Nette says, "He had been in an auto accident and one of his legs was gangrene at the time of his death.  This leads me and others to think he was diabetic."


               
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Closing Thoughts


Here you have a Family Short Story, which began before we were born and continues after our passing, with our predecessors and our descendants, and the many lives, and hearts that are "touched" by their passage.

We are the legacy of past generations, and all that we have is due to their passions, laughter, and tears during their passage through this life.  They gave us the gift of freedom and sit as angels on our shoulder as we walk through the weeds of yesterday and into the garden of tomorrow.  When we stumble and fall, remembering past generations lifts us and strengthens our resolve so we can better weather the storm and see the waiting rainbow.

However, this is not the end, for there are other family members and new generations to come.  This is just a short story for those family members that are interested in OUR FAMILY STORY and HISTORY.

I feel very honored to be a part of this FAMILY TREE.
I love being a part of the history of this land.
I love that my family were here before me ... and will be here after me.

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